Friday, August 12, 2016

For Better or For Worse

Dear Married Friends,

Did you know we’re in the middle of a marriage crisis in America?

FACT: Half of all who divorce do so before their 8th wedding anniversary.
FACT: The peak rate of divorce is now happening in the 4th year of marriage.
FACT: 70% of couples call it quits without seeking any professional counseling.
FACT: Many married couples are struggling, and need help to re-connect with their spouse.

Who makes their vows ‘for better and for worse’ ever thinking divorce could happen to them?

Or that they will end up more like roommates than love-mates?
What causes a relationship to go south so quickly? Are there common behaviors?  Warning signs? Or we just had a baby,  now what?!

Let’s turn to my friends Zach Brittle and Laura Heck who created For Better.

Zach and Laura have spent thousands of hours counseling married couples from all walks of life, and have been trained extensively by Dr. John Gottman and The Gottman Institute. Their teaching is practical, proven, and if you do the work… transformative.

Zach says; "Dr. Gottman discovered – with scientific certainty – 9 specific behaviors that are poison to a relationship. So toxic, so identifiable, that Gottman gained global acclaim for his ability to predict divorce with the 3000+ couples he studied over 17 years with 94% accuracy."

If any of these 9 behaviors were in your relationship, wouldn’t you want to know?

The For Better team has developed this material in an engaging (thoughtfully curated), flexible (schedule for your life) and affordable way (therapy is expensive).

Marriage in Motion is a five-week, online marriage training course that will give you empirically proven, actionable help to transform your marriage…without the time and cost of traditional therapy.

I believe healthy and happy is possible for all married couples.  Go to For Better  and check out the short introductory video.  Submit your email for the free 3 part video series to get a sense of what is in the course.  Enroll by 8/15 to take the Marriage in Motion course, there are 4 bonus features included for this course only!

Anything worth having takes work, and that includes a healthy, happy Marriage.

When the Marriage in Motion course is complete and you've done the work, then:
- You will be fully re-committed to your marriage.
- You will think of your partner more often - now with more positivity and appreciation.
- You will feel heard, truly understood, respected and accepted --- even when you see things differently.
- The days of cold shoulder have been replaced with quick relationship repair and recovery.
- The nervous tension between you and your mate is finally gone.
- You will look forward to being together.

What makes Marriage in Motion different?

GOTTMAN METHOD THERAPISTS - Zach and Laura have been trained extensively by world renowned relationship expert Dr. John Gottman and The Gottman Institute. We have thousands of hours successfully counseling married couples from all walks of life.

SCIENTIFICALLY VALIDATED TRAINING - Our insights, advice, tools, and skill-building exercises are NOT based on personal opinion but backed by evidence-based methods of how to do relationships well. Our teaching is practical, proven, and if you do the work… transformative.

"SMALL WINS" ACTION PLAN - Knowledge without action is worthless. The action we encourage is incremental and intentional. Small wins are vital in shaping your behavior that will take you from where you are to where you want to be. Small wins give hope, build confidence, and create momentum. Small wins will convince you that larger accomplishments are achievable.

LIFETIME ACCESS - Your training materials are yours forever. Plus, you can revisit any of the content at anytime. In addition, you have ongoing free access to any new material we add to MARRIAGE in MOTION.

100% UNCONDITIONAL MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE - We have the scientific data to support our training. We know precisely what behaviors are relationship-building and which behaviors are relationship-diminishing. If you watch the videos, do the exercises, and follow our process – you will absolutely, positively begin to transform your marriage. If you don’t agree we’ll happily refund 100% of your money.

Your marriage is important, your friends marriage is important, use these tools for the work it takes to have a happy and healthy marriage!

1 comment:

  1. Thank you for the great info! I'm happy to have celebrated our 11th anniversary :)